"Not a friend" indeed…A friend in need…is the "Back up plan" the" Stand by" person you Only...Remember when your "friends" are too busy and you are out of options... The easy going person who never says no... That you think is too naive and "easy to use" To fill some leisure time... to fill "in between" other stuff time... He is defiantly not your favorite.. But surly useful to keep... In addition to this.. There is the "back up" lover… who you only use post breakup…or before a marriage or an engagement...
To say goodbye to your days as a single...
Update:
This post has been posted by mistake… I was sleepless last night and started writing some scattered thoughts…
And obviously clicked the publish button instead of the “save” one!
I was so surprised when I saw it out this morning…
I was writing out of confusion and disappointment …
I usually use my disappointment in a positive way… and I rethink my own way of dealing with people… to make sure I don’t disappoint people the same way…
I never expect people to be perfect… or not to make mistakes…
Because I make my own mistakes… and I am not perfect either… but I rethink my way… and judge myself at the end of the day…
I try to do things in a different way… if I know it might hurt someone….
Well, this time… I guess I am too overwhelmed to be able to write my mind well.. so I better let it go…
6 comments:
when I read the first line I thought you were writing the lyrics for Pure Morning by Placebo "a friend in need is a friend indeed...." LOOL
the backup lover is also known as the "rebound"
i agree 100%, wallah that happened with me most of the time, most of my friends contacted me when they didn't have someone to talk to,then disappear when they have.
you know i always was convinced that i should forgive them, but not anymore now, they manipulative, bad ppl, and the farthest from being friends.
thnx for the post, take care.
yeh everyone has "friends" like that..it sux!
it is good that you were sleepless so that we get those few lines to think about :)
Actually I don't mind friends coming back when they are free. I know what I can give and I know how to classify my friends. It wouldnt be acceptable for someone I consider a really close friend, but it is okay for someone who is just a friend. Maybe I would even prefer it this way :)
I agree with Observer here, it is inevitable that these things happen but I do understand your disappointment
I can totally relate, I seem to miraculously become everyone's best friend after a bitter break up! Probably because I'm a good listener who gives good advice that do not include things like : You shouldn't have, or I told you not to.
Sigh
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